This is a subject that has links with love, lust and many other emotions that arise. But for those of you who don't know, sex, does not always mean love, it can mean love, and it can mean a deeper connection. But in many cases which I have found, in experience and in conversation is that this act is primarily being used in recreational purposes, which is fine. But when u reck-creation, there is a problem.
Now I for one would be and still could be the first one to point a finger at. There are times when i succumb to my lustful ways and then there are times when i willingly give in to my lust also. But on the flip side, I have moments, when are of better quality mind and body, that when done with someone you care about that makes the moment much more special.
Humph, but then again sometimes I jus wanna get my rocks off... lol... so you see even with inside me there is a dilemma. Or a pendulum rather, swinging from side to side, from left to right, from light to dark, from "right" to "wrong". (I put right and wrong in quotation because I personally don't believe in right and wrong. Just
this and that. *for more on this and that concept check out philosophy section*)
I was having a conversation with one of my friends on the topic of having meaningful sex, and was laughed at. But honestly, when your done having sex with someone and the first thought in your mind (or my mind rather) is ok well you can go now, or wellllllllll, I'm bout to go. Then that was a waste of time. Unless that is you and the person whom your are intimate and connected with just got in a quicky before one or both of you had to be off somewhere. Or maybe thats all you want, so if your satisfied with that then more power to you.
Ive been in that position one too many times and don't unnecessarily like it, but when times of need arise and you must release sometimes you gotto do what you gotto do.
I'm not a virgin and I'm not gonna act like one. My body has needs and I will not deny myself. If I don't give my self, or get myself what I want who else will?
I enjoy sex, it is therapeutic, relaxing and further more a great form of exercise (if you doin it right; for more on the topic check out Sexercise.).