This page is of course dedicated to sex and its affects upon a relationship. Be it a beginning relationship or one that has been goin on for some time.

I feel sex is a very important part of a relationship. You my dig someone mentally, physically and spiritually and then it comes time to get down and their found lacking.

That is a great dissapointment and in my opinion is a great waste of time. Depending on how much time it took for the sexual to go down.

I've even preached getting sex out of the way... Now I know that sounds hoeish but when you think about it... (side note: I was at a poetry event and a guy read a poem about the coversation after sex. And it being one of the most open and honest one's you can have. And I do agree.)... so when you think about it. Getting sex out of the way will clear the air for both parties involved.

I know the guys love this concept and the women secretly feel me.

I had a conversation with a woman whom prided herself on her selectiveness a the fact that she was not hoeish in her manerisms. She even admitted that after waiting for so long to bed down with a man who had been courting her for awhile and he came up short. Literally. She felt as if she wasted her time.

Which was funny to me becuase I told her that if she would have just had sex with him sooner she would have known and could move on. lol.

But she didnt like that too much. Whatever.

But with this frame of thought does enter the double standard of men and women. One that men can have sex with alot of women and their viewed as players or macks. And if women did the same things there hoes.

That sucks for yall. But honestly. Its true.
(More on this topic in the Double Standard section)